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Not only can they do without communication, humour, nob culture and romantic conversations to gain what they covet,
I'm afraid you're carrying the idea a bit too far. Many NOB expats arrive and promptly attempt to learn Spanish. Many learn just enough to get by in most situations. I doubt that their deficiency has prevented them from enjoying humor, culture and romantic conversations (they often aren't looking for a new romance...they brought their own). Like most generalizations, it breaks down upon close examination. Maybe I missed your meaning, and you were referring to their missing out on
Mexican culture and humor....not those things in general.
I've pointed this out before, but when we examine what people from other cultures do when they emigrate, we most often find that they head directly for their own cultural enclaves, where they may not learn to speak the new language well. This is especially true of older people, who sometimes live in the new country for the rest of their lives without learning the language well enough to get into "humor" or "romance."
As far as "trusting" is concerned.......whether we are fluent in the language or not, we end up nervously trusting those who are expert in the law, mechanical matters and many other fields. "Look lady, the problem is you need a new frammisss on your whatsit before your car will run well" is not an uncommon experience. And then, there's the doctor telling you what you need to do. Huh? And we "trust" that we will get the good information. Good luck to all of us.
There is another factor to consider: Many people emigrate to another country because they need to, not because they wouldn't rather stay where they are. This is true of most of our own ancestors. It is true now of those seeking employment heading NOB, and of those retirees in a financial crunch heading for Mexico, where they can live with dignity on whatever straitened means they have. Good for all of them, using the survival skills humans resort to.